Women’s fear for her husband!!!!!!

Fear ! O Fear! Fear which I had for you. We are together emotionally but we are connected physically and  Mentally we know each other better than any body else. We know each other’s attitude. We know the prons and cons of one another. The days have pass through and still we are together that is the most beautiful part of a life. But still I am a woman. Who always have a fear of losing you. I know you will not hide anything from me. You will boost me up with everything. You will discuss all the stuff which you expect from me. You will always be my hero, my sunshine, my shinning star too. I always want to see you happy whether I am with you or your on somebody else lap. I just want what ever you do will not stop you  for anything But you should be the first person to tell me about everything you do behind me . I can bear the pain of other woman who is taking my place in your arms but I really won’t expect that you will think that I am doing this same with somebody else like you are doing. You are the only one for me for my present and for my future. No body will take your place ever not even in my sorrow or in excitement too. I can bear the pain that you are with someone else. But only if you are talking and treating me the normal as if we had our relationship earlier. I will develop the changes you really want in me but for that you have to be clear with your thoughts  towards me.

I will explain with an example of a lord Krishna The avatar of lord Vishnu and have many wife’s but the eight are recognized and the one is the chief of all the Rani’s ” Devi Rukmini” she is the avatar of  Devi Laxmi. Since the starting of the universe woman know that every men are of fickle mind by their nature and tempted towards other women’s physic.

It totally depends on a woman that how she can control her emotion easily and never put the limitation, boundaries for her husband. So that he start feeling like a cage with her and really want to fly out of that cage. So that he will  get a good space and ideal time is really important for a healthy relationship between husband and wife.

I believe a woman should give a space for his husband to explore and experiment with his life. So that he won’t feel trapped into a relationship.

And if he loves you the most then he knows about you  and his priorities too. Boundaries, fear, limitation etc. always encourage  by the other person to think on and the thought which always come across is ” Let’s try” “Explore something new”  “Need something which is Adventures”

So for women’s I believe they follow the path of the Devi Rukmini  if she know that his husband is like a lord Krishna.

Devi Rukmini knows everything about the lord Krishna  and his beloved Gopi’s too. But she was confident enough about his husband and her love towards Krishna ji to the at most level. This is the eternal truth of the love of her towards Kanna.

Whether poking your husband again and again for doing wrong thing and all just sit with him  and give him a plenty of time to be comfortable then ask him what he is expecting from you to do towards balancing your relation. Be with him always and think positive and brighter side of your relationship. Understand the situation which he wants to discuss with you. And always stay in his side so that he feel protected with you.

Be with him in his positive side of  being loved by your family, children and  specially your husband at the same time. Try to mingle your thoughts about the pressure which he or she is carrying alone with them the whole day.  Encourage him to explore something new with you so that he or she can come out of that pressure load .So that he can come out of his stress and speak what he wants from you.

A women can bear all the sorrow and understand the feeling of a man but for that man have to be open up enough to put his thought infront of her.

Wife who always know about his husband but she always want his husband to talk and take his first step to explain what exactly the thought he have in his mind in the current scenario.

A small paragraph where women’s can come across her Mistakes and Explore her strength of Happiness with his Family.

A thought by Arthur Schopenhauer

Every possession and every happiness is but lent by chance for an uncertain time and may therefore  be demanded back the next hour.

Feelings can be develop for others too But only if we want to and that is totally depends upon person to person.

I think the small expression of thoughts has expressed the whole feelings of mine too .

Missing you or caring about you and your family that actually belongs to me the possession of  love which I feel and that is only for you. Their is no other thought which I can express towards you.

” A Drop of rain stay on a surface for a few seconds but the ultimately the end of a rain drop is to meet the beloved soil for the entire new journey of  the life should begin again.”

– By Sheilly Rana