Oh! God please help me to bear this pain in my whole body, for next 5 to 7 days. Some people says don’t use pad. Some people says use a clean cloth. Whether you stay in urban or a rural area. Nobody listen or bear the pain which a woman was carrying along. Not even father, not even brother and not even a husband. Will understand it. These so called relations will never help a woman with her pain. And the biased behaviour of our society. Shalln’t Be broke their shells to saw the reality of life. All I have to bear with this pain every month and for every 5 to 7 days. No body cares, women with her pain. Perhaps, I am in a pain I need some emotional , mental and physical support that time I just remember my mother and my lord. Please help me with this pain. Let me bear it.When I think of those women who are fighting for our country security even in her ache and that time I felt bit relax. Before I go into the depth of it. I felt sorry to be open infront of the public.
Letzzzzz !!!!! Start!!!!!!! With a puberty age that usually came in girls between 10 to 14 years of her age. And mine came around 11years of age. When I look 1 year back from my puberty I was 10 years old and that time my school was having guidelines / workshops / seminars regarding mensuration cycle. It was bit funny for me that time. I hardly gave an attention to people who use to come for the workshop and hardly hear what they use to guide us. But those pamphlets that they gave I use to carry them at home and tell my mother about it. Since, I am aware of it. Now it was a time of a summer break of my class 6. I have very much excited and full of enthusiasm in me, that time I have just enjoyed my summer vacation without second thought in my mind. I just remember my first day of a school after my summer break gets over, on 1stjuly’2k5. The first pain, first periods just after eating my favourite mangoes. I didn’t even realize that now in a second I will become a lady, a woman from a girl. ButStill that time my mother told me what was right and wrong for you. It seem like so funny for me because I have already attended workshops regarding it, that was the reason I am not scared of it. So I am bit confident and confused because I don’t even know how to use the wings pad because that phrase was new for me, that day was a life changing moment for me. I know this was not only happen with me but with every single women on this earth. Now my care for Mother Goddess has been increased to the topmost level.
And the question which always came in my mind are: How they use to bear this type of pain in their body? What are those things which they use at their time of mensuration period? How they use to manage everything ? Why people won’t discuss about it. Our culture or religions never talk about the pain which a women was carrying along with her even in her happiness or in her sorrows. I have just head and read don’t talk about periods infornt of any man and restriction came to you against that so called man should not touch your clothes your pad in your mensuration cycle. Reason why ? I didn’t even get the answer till right now. but still I head that a women can’t even visit religious places and some of them are banned for the women to enter into it. How educated illiterate people we are that we stop women to enter into the temple. Though we have taken are birth because of that only. I know their was nothing wrong about it. I saw people fighting about it and I can’t even stop them from their bogus discussion on women’S mensuration cycle. And when this cycle starts every women always feel and have mood swings, that is the reason they need rest and have relax for their good health. It is not so easy to bear with this pain. I just want the youth male or boys and even adult women’s should understand it and know it. Try to help women a bit and respect her from your heart. just support her be with her atleast in her ache time. So the pain which she was carrying will stay constant. I hope you will understand it and do care about her effectively from your busy schedule.
I don’t want to hurt anyone. But just by writing i want a reader should feel the pain which women carry along with her.
“Educating a women is for most important because she have to make a future for the next generation.”
– BY SHEILLY RANA
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